want works because we share the same values. These aren’t just rules; they’re the promises we make to each other to keep this space safe, kind, and intentional. They supplement our Terms & Conditions.
No ghosts, no breadcrumbs.
If you're not feeling it, say so. Honesty beats avoidance every time.
Consent is everything.
No unsolicited explicit content (e.g., pictures, videos, voice notes) or pressure.
Be real, not performative.
This isn't an audition. We connect with people, not personas.
Respect every 'no'.
Full stop. Every time. No exceptions.
Safety comes first.
First meets happen in public, with both of you feeling comfortable.
No emotional 'drive-by's.
Not a place for ego hits. If you're here, be here.
Kind endings count.
Even when it's not a match, leave dignity intact.
Privacy is part of trust.
No sharing private words, pictures, ormmet without permission.
No selling, no spam.
want is for connection, not commerce.
We protect our own
See something off? Report it. We'll handle it with warnings, suspensions, or bans.
