House rules

want thrives because we’re all in this together, sharing the same heart and values. These rules are our gentle promises to keep this space safe, kind, and full of intention. They work alongside our Terms & Conditions.

No ghosts, no breadcrumbs.

If the spark is not there, just let them know. Honesty feels better than silence.

Consent is everything.

No surprise explicit stuff, like photos or videos, or pushing boundaries. Let us keep it respectful.

Be real, not performative.

Show your true self. No catfishing or fake vibes. Using want for adult, sexual, or transactional purposes is not okay and could lead to a permanent goodbye.

Respect every 'no'.

Full stop. Every time. No exceptions.

Safety comes first.

First meets happen in public, with both of you feeling comfortable.

No emotional 'drive-by's.

Not a place for ego hits. If you're here, be here.

Kind endings count.

Even when it's not a match, leave dignity intact.

Privacy is part of trust.

No sharing private words, pictures, ormmet without permission.

No selling, no spam.

want is for connection, not commerce.

We protect our own

See something off? Report it. We'll handle it with warnings, suspensions, or bans.